Everything has a place & when things are not in place it creates chaos. I remember telling my kids to place things where they belong because it just made things flow better, feel better and look better. I don’t want the “appearance” of things to look great, I want them to actually be great. When things are in place in your life, order is set. This includes the people you surround yourself with, the job you work, the money that comes in your life, etc. There should be an order established & the reason why so many of are unhappy and have this spirit of unrest & our lives are chaotic is because things are out of order. The first thing that needs to be set in order is YOU and the way to do this is to start with your internal being. Order starts from within; it makes no sense to put put on a pretty dress if you don’t wash your tail. If your mind and soul aren’t right then your external isn’t right. If you constantly frustrated then this means that it’s time to place things in RIGHT order. We spend so much time trying to fix external things when the work needs to be done on the inside.
When you began to change yourself the things around you will change or eliminate themselves. If you smell something the first thing you do is try to find out what stinks & then you get rid of it. It’s likely if you stink, you won’t notice a smell! Clean yourself up then clean up around you – right order. I’m in a place now where I’m at an unrest and there is a nagging & tugging from within that I can’t ignore. I know it’s time to set things right with me in order for things to change around me. So much chaos is presenting itself; I’m aware that it is time for proper placement. I do not like to kid myself and close my eyes to a mess & sweep it under a rug! This only masks the mess, it doesn’t eliminate it. Our peace is disturbed, well being is off balance, our relationships lack substance, our children are running crazy, we aren’t happy on our jobs, our spiritual lives are a mess and it’s all because things are not in proper placement. We try to find external things to bring us peace – we drink, we smoke, we party, we jump in and out of beds of men/women, we take prescription drugs to numb our pain, etc, and all these external fixes are temporary. These things further damage us and keep us from seeing our real issue, and that is ourselves. Our world is rapidly changing and deteriorating, and daily we are presented with new challenges! We need to get in alignment and stop being to reliant on things outside of ourselves to fix us. We try to blame lack of things as our issues, but honestly it’s not a lack of things, it’s a lack of that spiritual connection that causes us to become dissatisfied. OR if you are not the spiritual kind, so what it takes to get back to the core of yourself to establish order, whatever that “thing” is connect with it, and then move forward freely.
Start with me: I am focusing on my spiritual life and making sure my connection with God, my power source is never unplugged – we disconnect when things are good & reconnect when things are bad! This connection keeps all connections connected and one source that we should always stay plugged into!
There is no relationship that be fought harder to save than the relationship you have with yourself! Be good to yourself first and foremost! This is right order, God, Self & Family and Friends! All things in perfect order!